i can 't handle my autistic child anymore

Its the broadcasting of something private to her and her son. The very fact that you wrote this tells me you have NO clue what severe autism is, or what it looks like. How dare you. The reason your son acts this was is NOT because of autism, its because he has a worthless sake of shit like you for an egg donor. Melody, your comments are completely lacking in empathy and understanding. Your email address will not be published. Would you share that with the whole world in a way that shamed him or would you find people you trusted to support you and vent to them? And she cries because if she dies before he does she doesnt believe anyone will go to her childs funeral. And its shorter for Autistic with intellectual disabilities. Autistic people are not capable of empathy. But not too worry. The problem here isnt the teachers, most of whom are going beyond duty for the children. simply to be liked by own parents? Saying you wouldnt say these things about your normal child why would you abut the one that is autistic. Helping Children With Autism Handle Their Emotions. Im not a big sharer & try not to post things that are too personal, but that sure seems to be the way of the world nowadays. I know it takes some of us a long time to connect with Actually Autistic community and by then you may have already gone down a path of trying to fix your child, and hating autism. Coopers mother should keep her feelings to herself?? The most important aspect of this technique is consistency. Fecal matter on walls and furniture, sometimes multiple times a day. Damn, you w*men are children. When you say that autism ruined your marriage, youre telling people to fear autistic people. No local services. Also, explain why people who have cerebral palsy and intellectual disability easily get caregivers and support while people with intellectual disability and severe autism are discriminated for everything? Im struggling. Just because she had a bad day (we all do), and decided to share her story, doesnt give you the right to bash her and make her out to be a bad person. Its humiliating, and shaming your OWN child for being BORN neurodivergent? Think about it If a couple went to a concert, and the wife got overwhelmed and overstimulated, and she had a panic attack, Then the husband posted a video on Facebook talking about how EMBARASSING his wife was and how hard it made his life, How no one would love her because shes different How frustrating it is that he had to give up on his wife and her future, Many would call him emotionally abusive, and rightfully so. Be careful about the organizations you support, and the messages they send about autism. It is offensive to parents that struggle every day. Look, having kids makes life harder as much as it makes life fulfilling. we all have to try to make our childrens lived less stressful. If sharing experiences and their feelings online helps them find relief so they can keep moving forward and cope better, then so be it! Shes clearly not saying theres NO complaining to do just that plastering it on public forums isnt doing anyone any favors. This article was co-authored by Luna Rose. I havent seen this particular video (dont plan to, either), but I see a lot of this stuff on Facebook, etc. The girls he wants to flirt with. Theres no support, respite, etc., for our family. I can't handle my Autistic 4 year old anymore I feel like a horrible mother . Ill ask that you kindly read this post about the harm in functioning labels. Its okay to be rock bottom, and if you dont have or dont know how to get resources, it feels like the world is crushing you. And even if they wont, you honestly think that because they possibly dont understand what youve said that it makes it okay for you to say? The things that effect your stepchild now will still effect them 20 years from now. Right on! ?if my son could walk into a room, look you in the eye, smile politely and start in on a coherant conversation I wouldnt consider him autistic. We all want our children to be loved, to grow and succeed. You have no clue what it is too realize, and YES grieve, because your child will never have a comfortable existence, and may never even go to school much less graduate. I dont know what you have to go through day to day but I can sympathize with anyone that has to face these hardships and loses their shit, all of us that are affected by autism live in a waking nightmare. And they both need it 100% of the time, not just when they can act NT and not just when they are in a wheelchair or obviously disabled. Im doing my best, but it is hard. Support ad love instead of judging and pointing fingers. She shouldnt have posted a video about it, but you shouldnt be judging her. Just because your life is manageable with your perfect authistic kid and 4 normal kids, does not mean it is the same for the rest of us. Some of the comments on here please relinquish your disabled children to social services or even permanent care I worry so much for their physical safety, their mental health, their autonomy and just growing up with parents that truly cannot get beyond their own pain to even countenance that this kid has feelings as deep and complex as they do. You are not the autistic person mothers grieve for anyway. Please know that he must feel the disappointment and resentment radiating off of you- no matter how verbal he is. And I work with all ranges of autistic people. Stop trying to hide them like they used to hide people with mental illness in institutions with physical & chemical restraints. Theres also asking for advice which, again, shouldnt be mixed with venting on a public forum. Not just for your own sanity but for the literal safety and heart& soul of your son. Facebook nowadays is a cesspool of narcissistic boomers, sl*ts, anti-vaxxers, white supremacists, conspiracy weirdos and other human trash, so posting a public video shaming your disabled children there means that youre not different from them. I work 7.30 hrs from home while she is sat on me and sleep on me. Well, as an autistic adult who is struggling badly with self-worth and Googling Am I a Burden? these abusive, unhinged comments have clearly allowed me to see that its actually not me thats a problem for existing. And Im not sugar coat this. Higher functioning individuals struggle to keep jobs in our lovely ultra individualistic society. Im not a fan of this article, I find it patronising to say the least. The key to understanding how to calm an autistic child lies with understanding what it is that triggers the behavior. But parents dont share anything like that about their neurotypical or able-bodied children. At least everyone else here has direct experience with autism (they have a child with autism or are on the spectrum themselves). I dont criticize that woman for trying to take her child to see something she thought he might like. This article is hogwash. Yes, in an ideal world it would be edited to reflect that vast differences people with autism can have but it was not because bigotry is alive and welleven it turns out in a community that should have sympathy and understanding for the many different faces of autism. Those are the exceptional few on the spectrum. People NEED people. Autism is suddenly a disqualifier to be a mommy blogger or vlogger? Its just that you have got to change the way you think or view things. Im so sick of parents complaining about the normal teenage antics of their kids. Im sure there are good moms with dozens of kids but this writer seems to dont have a human heart. Especially if your child is severely affected, AND UNABLE TO SELF ADVOCATE, he needs a translator, i.e., his mom, his primary caregiver. Parents want their children to have easier lives than they did growing up. You dont know her life. SO this is not that. I believe u may have missed the bottom part. And well, an apple that falls far from the tree is quite a rare thing Poor children, and poor pets. A desire not to do something. So I really have to say it is unbearable most of the time. If youre not in that persons shoes, dont assume you understand their life and what they are going through. And I dont mean for him I mean for you and your husband. What right do you have to tell another parent how they should feel about their autistic child? Autism is one of the pervasive developmental disorders, with symptoms that usually appear before three years of age. We deal with tantrums every day, to the degree hes knocked my teeth out of my mouth. Why dont you self-righteous, toxic parents support your autistic kids and let them be themselves, rather than complaining about how horrible your life is? I saw that video too and my first thought was why is she taking him to this bloody Elmo thing anyway.He so obviously didnt want to be there. His reading comprehension is not even at a 1st grade level. Vrs women who lie and say its perfect never a bad never any anger or grife or fear. This article is saying you shouldnt complain, vent etc. Your child may learn to communicate very well in alternative ways, such as sign language, typing, facilitated communication, and more. He is. Theres venting which needs to be done in an appropriate place, whether the child is neurotypical, autistic, or has ADHD. While I also have chronic pain, I cant fathom his. Parents need an outlet but it shouldnt be somewhere the child can Google for later in life. We just saw a grandmother kill her twin autistic boys recently. You may need to repeat yourself or write things down. She makes it SO MUCH HARDER for the world to accept my kids as they are. Still dressing and brushing teeth and feeding adult children that have no adaptive skills. Well, happy judging autism super mom. I fully believe that is the biggest missing piece of autism awareness. I love my kids. Being non-speaking or intellectually disabled (those are VERY different things, by the way) doesnt negate that persons basic right to privacy, dignity, and respect. If the people in those groups knew how you feel they wouldnt want, or feel comfortable, having you as a member. But the difference at the two extreme end points hardly look like the same condition. And you know what? So if you are a parent with an autistic child, and you want to complain . Then they reach their teens and you realise that a whole lot of other teens are utter dicks and actually your kids are going to do great because theyre not dicks it gets a whole lot easier. EVERYONE. You should probably take this article down. My son is profoundly autistic and has been through unimaginable struggles. By NOT expressing these things it makes other parents of autistic children feel like they arent good enough, isolated, and like they are flat out bad parents, even though they sacrifice EVERYTHING just to care for them. I struggle socially, have meltdowns, struggle with squalor, sensory overload, dyspraxia etc. This is the most ass backwards post Ive ever read. So I think what it comes down to is for parents to ask themselves two things: What are my support needs? Say something like "You're hurting your legs. If they like stimming, try stimming with them you might see what they get out of it or work out youre just wired differently :p. Then dont be a part of those FB parents groups. I dont know. I know exactly how you feel. You can afford therapy?! Yes they will gain more control over their actions and better understand the world around them so that their behaviors seemingly improve. The severe learning disability is the issue. Required fields are marked *. Ive been to restaurants and Ive seen autistic kids but they never acted out autistically and if they did the world is forgiving. I feel sad when we are at the playground and I see other kids who are normal. They may use abusive tactics, such as holding down your child's hands, ignoring feelings of discomfort or fear, ignoring the right to say no, withholding food, or even using electric shocks. clean the parts taht get stinky. This article is a bit ridiculous. What you are saying but you do not realize yourself, is that autism isnt the issue. PLEASE start talking to autistic adults. Forcing their disorders in the same category isnt helpful to anyone. Please. The struggle and frustrations need to be shared and spoken about, but not online for the whole world. And doing it openly and publicly on the Internet is neither. Austitic mama mantra seems to be Out of sight, out mind, I actually loved this post! But it is wrong to disparage those of us who are not so fortunate, we have very real concerns about the growing epidemic of autismYES it is an epidemic even the CDC admits it is NOT just better diagnosis. Full stop yall. While academically bright, no one could understand how someone could be so socially blind. Its just basic respect. It breaks my heart my son will never take an SOL, SAT, or go to college due to his autismit is a REAL DISABILITY. I will always love him from the depths of my soul, and I certainly get the frustration, but yeah, please dont post meltdowns. But my child needs to be accepted for what he can and cannot do, for how his brain is wired differently just like yours needs it. Everyone needs one, autistic, neurotypical, living with a mental illness, or not diagnosed. YOU DONT KNOW. Waaa waaa whine. That said, a lot of these difficulties arose not directly from the autism but because of the lack of understanding and awareness of it. You mean high and low masking. Being attacked by your own child. Best to you and your family! We talk about the things the HIGH functioning authkr.doesnt understand-tell me that if I vent about my son fecal smearing, would it be overreacting to vent and talk about it and share? Its the same thing. And then your child was born, struggled through school, and they decided that they never wanted to go to college. Sometimes SIB is related to pain. If shes not for you dont follow her, dont watch her videos but making a blog to shame her cause you dont prefer her style, ew just ew. Thanks for writing it. Autism is not the issue. You only know the world of high functioning ASD/Aspergers. you say it gets easier, so your the voice of every autistic child, well you got alot to learn then, cause thats is not always the case,, many do not get easier an to say such a thing is completely wrong. Hes making a pretty clear statement, tbh. Even people who are just looking for a sentimental video, but dont have one autistic in their lives themselves. And its still okay for me to break down and have bad days too. ASD is called a spectrum for a reason. You could choose to cope in the way that helps YOU and your child without hating on another parent and HER CHILD. For example, consider making homemade pizza with your child. Now i agree about posting certain stuff online,i myself are private because to me the world does not deserve a front row seat to my family. 1.2K views, 26 likes, 31 loves, 56 comments, 42 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Michael Mirdad: Humility versus Grandiosity -- Friday Night Spiritual. This article is good that woman that posted that video deserves to be called out for her mistakes. His sister? But every single one of my internal issues have been overlooked because theres nothing wrong with me. The same goes for caffeine dont give your child anything that is likely to keep him or her awake. You want to complain so fucking badly about your kid smearing fecal matter to the world? If I do, thats a meltdown. AS someone whos autism was so hidden I wasnt even diagnosed until 31, I can tell you it wasnt easy for me or my parents. Point istry to take it one day at a time. What that mom posted about her kid was abusive. Occasionally posts contains other affiliate links as well. He struggles with communication, which leads to most of his meltdowns, but they are rare now, and with his improvements, my health has improved in some ways, too. No matter what, our kids deserve dignity and respect, even in our worst moments. It can be overwhelming. We still have bad days but Im telling you- its night and day. You think parents of NT kids dont publicly complain, post videos, etc? So just stop. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. She could have recorded the video and showed it to a close group of people who really and truly understand and are able to help. Im not a complaining mama, but your litmus test for what to share will stick with me long-term. It clicked and everything has changed. Autistics should be treated with the dignity of every other person, including speaking about them in a public forum. If your child suspects that you may not follow through, he or she is unlikely to stop the behavior. Its been 4 years since my oldest was diagnosed and almost 2 years since my middle baby was diagnosed, and Ive better educated myself on how to best accommodate thier needs. Also, criticism is NOT censorship. Respect and support help autistic people feel confident. 1.1K views, 96 likes, 8 loves, 4 comments, 48 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Dr. Eric Berg DC 2022: How to Lose Arm Fat - Dr.Berg - Dr. Eric Berg DC Like and share the video to help me. These groups in which Parents share intimate details about their disabledchilds meltdowns, bathroom struggles, medical histories, and more without hesitation., are often all that we have for support- the only other people that understand or know what we go through. And I research how I can make it better and i take him to therapy and we try this and that But what I really need some times is to see someone else who struggles too. Im not a burden, i am a valuable part of my family. Facing my fear: to save my autistic son's future, I had to let him go Elayne Robertson Demby It's always hard for parents when their children leave home. You even sympathized with us. Thank you for writing this. You went no contact? Parenting an autistic child gets easier as they get older. If I refuse thats a meltdown. And mean. I had to quit working because there was no one willing to take care of him once he got older. I also want whats best for my autistic son. Parents complain about all their kids at any given time, even the ones who dont have issues. She is NOT complaining about her child. Take a seat. Could you massage them instead of hitting them?". I dont agree. Do you need to paint autism as rainbows and sunshine? Every single last internal concurring issue that isnt my Autism nor ADHD has been overlooked, therefore slowly, but surely, Im moving over to the societal low functioning scale. Its not the same. She cries in her car, on video for hundreds of thousands of people to see, because her son is autistic and that makes her life hard. hmmmm. If its such a big deal that your child meets Elmo, then that trip wasnt for your child at all. Im already a member of the FB group and I really value you. You do not get to be the censor police. There are lots of gentler ways to tell our stories and deal with our troubles. Yall need to start treating your severely Autistic children with basic human rights, privacy, and respect. WHO will love and care for him after his father and I are gone? At least in my state, special education services for those students who functionally cant understand virtual learning have been ignored completely. Now that we have that out of the way, lets get to the meat of it. I accept my son fully for his differences, but sharing our stories gives others a glimpse into our life, and can encourage policy makers to fund programs for the disabled. So many parents of autistic children have liked, commented on, and shared it. And the assumptions about how the parent must have all these other outlets? People like YOU should be shamed, not US for trying to educate you on how to actually not dehumanize your child, or US. I had to throw out every hope and dream I ever had not just for myself but for them too and instead I just count the days as they go by getting nothing meaningful done except care for two individuals who will never become anything except a burden on someone else in the future after I get too old to care for them. Theres a video circulating on Facebook with a mother in tears. I don't feel like have an identity anymore. It sounds like she had a hopeful day planned out for her kid, felt that he was ready, and couldnt wait to see his happiness, then when it went downhill it really sunk in how bad his disability is and she felt that she had failed him. This sounds like lack of impulse control (cant pause to think whether or not things should be done when angry) and seeking sensory input. It'll teach them the basics of reciprocal communication (which lays a good foundation for speech), allow them to express themselves, and help get their needs met. A study was done looking at ability to empathise between: Neurotypical- Neurotypical people, Neurotypical-autistic people, and Autistic-autistic people. Implementing a new routine can be difficult, so be patient. A burden I have to carry because they are my children and I love them, so I am sacrificing my time, my life, my goals, and my hopes so they can function. That is wrong. Nonverbal autistic people can be very happy and successful in life, like Amy Sequenzia. For example, a child who hits their own head may be experiencing pain from a toothache or lice. THE MOST BASIC THINGS IN LIFE. She has so much love for her child, you can see it in all her videos. Is this a possibility for you? WHERE does such heartless criticism come from?? Critizing disgraceful, toxic content is not censorship. What about the fathers? Kids who missed chucks of schooling for different reasons, kids going through family crisis, kids with other learning difficulties. That it isnnt like that kid on TV who sang the national anthem. ALL MOMS COMPLAIN . Its a living hell and all I can do is pray it gets better. Im the one manipulating people for the extra support (when in reality I realized I literally have two separate Dyslexias, and could have used the help in reading and writing by middle school, especially with notes, because I cant keep up with anybody in that bullshit.). Susan recently postedOvercoming My Biggest Fear. Let it be. Princeton University Press, 2008. Not all sunshine and rainbows??? Google them. If something you do makes your child cry or beg you to stop, then stop. You should have SOME idea of what autism is and what its not, but it seems like youre making up your own symptoms because thats how YOUR child is. Like, there is an out? Support groups are for support. There was no hate there, only love. When the world is spinning around you, pause and look within yourself taking note of your emotions and bodily sensations. My God are you OK? Parenting must be hard at times (again not only parenting an autistic child). My parents are far from perfection, but if they made something like this to me I would publicly shame them back and/or kill myself. When your child is severe,it is like nothing you have ever seen. Thats private information, and no parent to a NT child would ever do that. The stim may be very important to them. 4. And your children will, too, if you continue to publicly talk behind their backs and criticize them. You and the author should live a day in the life of a SEVERE ASD child you wouldnt know what to do. Anything else is cruel to the child and parent. That is not whining that is a fact. Cute list. You dont even know what youre talking about. My hobbies and interests are lost to me. I get it. And yes, lets be honest here, if you child is severely autistic, then yes they are a burden on the parents. I have to fight against voices like hers everyday, and it just seems like mothers like her breed more and more hate for Autism everyday. Tell me something If you choose to have children, you are opening yourself up to having a whole range of children and this really should have been made clear before you start. And I have yet to have a single class without a child with austim most have several. If the problem is about the other parents reactions, the rest about how no one else cares about your child doesnt need to be said. Dont you think if he could change anything that he would? Luna Rose is an autistic community member who specializes in writing and autism. Develop the tech skills you need for work and life. They have a dogpile of kids and suddenly they have the moral authority to trash not only parents of typical kids but as proven here, parents of disabled kids. Theres raising awareness, such as explaining what leads to why behaviors happen and ways to mitigate those circumstances. How about how the baby gets minimal sleep because his sister never sleeps, the melatonin doesnt work, and doctors refuse to do anything else about it? Parenting an Autistic child is basically me just guessing the best I can to handle a meltdown or sensory overload. I mean, the whole nine yards. Just because our neurotype is different, doesnt mean we dont need and deserve the same respect. ANY child COSTS his parents a great deal of money [For a middle-income family to raise a child born in 2015 through the age of 17, the cost of rearing a child has hit $233,610, according to the report.] But: A child with autism? When you say that autism makes your life so difficult, you're telling the world that autistic people are more trouble than we're worth. 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